The obituary notice of Helen DR TOMLINSON

Dear Agnes I can't believe it is a year since your mum, sadly lost her battle, although for you I am sure it feels a lot longer. I hope the pain is starting to ease a little. I think of you both often and I will carry fond memories of your mum for a long time to come (the tributes on here summarise her intelligence, wit and love for you Agnes, so keep that knowledge with you always). Forever in our hearts and thoughts Emily (and Florence) Vincent xx

Hi Agnes, I’m so sorry to hear about your mum. I got to know her when you first started school and she kindly invited us all to your 4th birthday party so we got to meet a few of the parents before school started. She opened up her heart to me but when it was obvious she was ill she didn’t want any help, it was so difficult to know what to do. It is a real shame you were kept away from her. I hope you will stay in touch with your Leckhampton friends, and we wish you all the best. Jo Furley

Ah Agnes. Your dear mum. Goodness how she made me laugh. Her cutting wit, so quick and accurate. Her love of haircuts, a peacoat, and dainty shoes. Her shrewd observations of the NHS, day time TV, and all of us come to think of it. Her roast chicken with fresh herbs, naturally. Her thoughts on education, her own and yours. Her extraordinary intelligence and determination. Her love for you Agnes. Her yearning so clearly seen in her face and heard in her voice. Her blowing kisses along Church Road.
All my sympathies and best wishes. I'll think of you tomorrow. Alison #91

Dear Agnes, we just wanted to let you know how sorry we are about your mum. She was a neighbour for many years and despite her problems the one thing we always knew was that she loved you very much. We can't come to the funeral tomorrow but will be thinking of you. Love Jo and Andy

Agnes, we can’t imagine what you are going through.
We really liked your mum and loved her wicked sense of humour. All she thought about was seeing and being with you. That was the ONLY thing that mattered to her. It’s so sad that you were kept away from her for so long. We will miss her a lot and there’s always an open invitation for you to come round and hang out with Rosie. Your mum would want that.

Hi Agnes,
I worked with your Mum 30 years ago, when we were young women. We worked for a charity and we wanted to save the world! Your Mum was very bright, clever and hard-working and a valuable member of our team. I’m not surprised she went on to train as a doctor. I’m sure she helped a lot of people.
I have to work on Monday, but I will send a tribute.
Thinking of you and your Mum,
Melanie

I’m so sorry for your loss, Agnes. I knew your mum and you for a short time when you were very little. My heart breaks for you xxx