The obituary notice of Daniel Edward Ronald BIRDSEY

I’m trying to get daddy into a hospice Daniel before the hospital send him home again.Since he came home Wednesday he’s now lost all the ability to walk.He actually can’t even stand he’ll fall straight to the floor.So he’s been going to the toilet in a jug in the bedroom.I couldn’t even give him his pain tablets because I gave him 2 glasses of water and he dropped them on the bed.So he’s also lost the ability to grip anything at all.I’m trying to hold it for him but he’s getting frustrated thinking he can do it himself.I don’t know sometimes what he’s talking about.He’ll ask the same questions over and over again.He asked me yesterday to phone the cat.🥹He hasn’t eaten for weeks I haven’t even been able to get him to drink water.He has no life at all now.There’s absolutely nothing he can do for himself.It was our 30 year wedding anniversary yesterday and I don’t know if that was his last day being in this house.I never ever thought I’d say I don’t want him home but that’s the way I feel.It’s impossible for him to be here.I really should be going to see him tomorrow but I’m dreading it.I know he’s going to be worse than yesterday and I just can’t bear to see it 🥹

30 years married to daddy today Daniel.And 41 years together 🥹

Daddy’s home again Daniel.After they told him he could go he fell backwards and banged the back of his head.But again they still sent him home.I tried to get him up the stairs to the toilet but he couldn’t do it.So he’s using a bucket downstairs.Don’t know how I’m going to get him up to bed tonight 🥹

Went to pick daddy up from hospital today Daniel.But he actually wasn’t allowed out,he got it wrong because he’s still very confused.He’s gone to Morriston ward L. Don’t know what they do there until I ask tomorrow.He’s absolutely filthy so I’m going to make sure I shower him tomorrow while I’m there.He can’t hold anything now which wasn’t happening in the house so that’s another thing that’s bad.He said he’s tipped 6 cups of tea over him because he can’t grip the cup 🥹

Daddy’s still in A and E Daniel.He’s been there 27 hours.I’ve got this awful feeling that if his x rays are okay the doctor will send him back home in the morning.He only agreed for me to ring an ambulance because that’s the only way ward 12 would take him back in.So he’s going to be really upset if he comes back home and all this was for absolutely nothing.And I will be fuming ❤️

Had to phone 999 today Daniel.The paramedic classed daddy as category 1 and the ambulance was here in 10 minutes.The 3 medics couldn’t believe the hospital sent him home last week,an hour after collapsing and hitting his head.He’s got a black eye again and bruises all over him.Just found a card in his glasses case that says he has VRA as well as MRSA,but the nurses didn’t tell me that.They had to help him to the toilet just like I’ve been doing.He’s even weaker and still can’t stand without collapsing.He hasn’t eaten for days I haven’t even been able to get him to drink water.This time he’s really confused too,I’ll give him all his tablets then 10 minutes later he’ll ask me for his tablets again.Medics we’re asking him his grandchildrens names and he didn’t know.That was strange because he says their names when he talks about them all the time.Didn’t know his address or date of birth either.He’s had to go to Morriston hospital first for x rays because otherwise ward 12 won’t take him in.Although these injuries were caused by being on ward 12 in the first place.I don’t know what’s happening unless he rings me which he’ll find hard because he can’t really hold a conversation at the moment 🥹

This month it’ll be Father’s Day, daddy’s birthday,and our wedding anniversary Daniel.Im just wondering with daddy being so ill with absolutely no sign of improvement if they will all be his last.Or by a miracle he will still be here next June 🤞